brianbroderick

Most men share a single, simple goal - they want to meet - and get to know - beautiful women.  I'll share with you here the special knowledge I've learned over the years, special knowledge that will help you identify where to meet beautiful women and how to treat them once you've met them.

You Can Meet Beautiful Women Here . . .

Look around you - almost wherever you look, you'll see beautiful women.  Here's one of those little-known facts - these stunning creatures aren't any different, really, from you or me.  They must eat, sleep and go to work.  They usually like to spend their time having fun from time to time, and they've got lives to lead that require the same things from that as are required of the rest of us.

Now, it is a fact that extremely beautiful women tend to gravitate to big cities.  It's not hard to figure out why - there's more opportunity for an extremely beautiful woman in a big city.  For instance, modeling and acting careers are easier to pursue in big cities.  Likewise, since also attract the wealthy and successful, there's more opportunity to meet such men in big cities.  Finally, cities are more active and exciting than most rural areas.

This is the time to think like a detective.  Beautiful women generally have to work at being - and remaining - beautiful.  They also like to enhance their beauty.  To maintain their beauty, women go to the gym.  To enhance their beauty, they buy fashionable clothing and accessories in trendy stores.  Go to those places if you want to find beautiful women.

Pretty girls are easy to meet at a gym.  Be ready to work out, and then go position yourself by one of the bench press machines.  As soon as a girl comes by, tell her your workout buddy couldn't make it, and ask if she'll spot you while you do a few reps.  Of course you can introduce yourself, and when you're done be certain to thank her.  And if it feels right, get her phone number!

Beautiful women are all over good department stores as well. Find one you'd like to meet, and ask her for her help in selecting a gift for your sister or cousin.  She'll probably respond positively if you tell her she seems to have the same sense of understated elegance as your sister, and ask her to give you ideas about a gift like a sweater or similar item.  Talk with her while you're shopping together, keeping the conversation light and non-threatening.  You can learn a great deal about her in just a few minutes if you pay attention to what she says.

What's the Best Way to Behave When Meeting Beautiful Women?

Most men, when they're around beautiful women, get tongue-tied and act confused.  They start acting macho, stupid.  It's called "beauty vision."  Remember - this is what most other guys out there do, so it's imperative that you stand out by being different!

She's stunning - so what?  You can't pay attention to her beauty now or you'll wind up with the rest of the fools.

She knows she's beautiful and has known it for quite a while now.  When you focus on something other than her looks, you send the signal that you're not so easily conquered.  She may appreciate that you're clearly not just interested in her because of her looks, even if she feels a little uncomfortable with the idea that you're not so easily won over.

All you need to do is treat her like any other person you might run into during the course of the day.  You'll be like a breath of fresh air to her instead of the bumbling idiots she usually meets.  At the same time, though, because she doesn't often meet men who aren't moved by her beauty, she'll consider you somewhat mysterious.  She'll be off-balance, because she'll appreciate being treated like a grownup women, but she'll also be wondering whether or not you even find her attractive at all!  She'll feel challenged by what comes across as your inattention to her beauty, and she'll want to prove to herself that she still has that special power over men - even you.

Meeting beautiful women, then, isn't hard at all, if you know where to look and how to act.  This, though, must be remembered: she's so used to men acting stupidly around her that if you act like that, she's not going to take you seriously and you'll never have a chance to show her what a great guy you really are!

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There are several PUA routines that anyone can use to help achieve successful relationships with women.  Let's discuss a few of them.  There's nothing supernatural or magical about these routines - they're basically just stories that build you up into someone a woman wants to get to know better.

Some routines have been beaten to death, like "the cube" and "the jealous girlfriend."  We're not going to waste time on these.

The Present Routine - This is a very creative routine that will help you to learn a great deal more about your "chosen" target.

It couldn't be easier - just go up to a group of girls and let them know that a business crisis called your buddy out of town unexpectedly.  He's given you money - say $200, or whatever - to get his girlfriend a birthday present.  The problem is, you don't know what to get her, and so you're hoping they'll give you some advice.

This approach is beautifully simple - whatever the girls suggest you should get your buddies girlfriend, that's something they themselves would like!  If one of the girls, for instance, recommends that you get the girlfriend a gift certificate for a day at a spa, you've learned something crucial about the girl who made the suggestion - that she loves to be pampered.  Perhaps one of the girls suggests costly accessories like Prada and Guess.   Well, guess who has expensive tastes?  Especially if you're persistent and patient, and get the girls to think about their suggestions, this will give you incredibly valuable information.  Imagine if one of the girls first tells you to buy a designer handbag, but her second suggestion is a book of poetry by a particular author.

Dating for Dummies - I've encountered a lot of different routines, and this is one of the funniest I've heard of.  It's a great icebreaker and it helps women to feel really relaxed around you.

Can you find a book on dating called "Dating for Dummies" or something similarly stupid? Find it and buy it.

Carry it with you into places you'd expect to meet women, like clubs, taverns, or whatever.  Open it up to the chapter about pickup lines you should never use.

This is the fun part - go up to the girl you want to meet, and holding the book in front of you so she can see the title, start reading the bad pickup likes out loud.  The worse the line, the better it is for your purpose!  Some classics you shouldn't avoid are "Do you come here a lot?" and "Where have you been all my life?"

This ought to get you a few laughs - assuming she's got any sense of humor at all - and she'll let down her guard.  You've got to have a good followup.  Try this: look at her innocently and ask "So how'd I do?  Which one worked the best?"

These routines have been tried and refined by true pick up artists, and should help you get the ball rolling.  Once you've got a conversation going, though, you can't let it stay at the question and answer level.  You've got to make a connection.  To establish rapport, you have to open up wo her, share something personal about yourself.  Try a meaningful story about an incident at work, or maybe something that happened at school.  Women respond positively to men who open up to them personally, and you'll be able to feel the connection building.

Canned PUA routines aren't anything I want to share here, because they essentially require you to lie about yourself, about who you are, and that's not my style.  Think back on your life and you'll see that there are tons and tons of interesting stories - you probably never looked at them from the perspective of using them as stories that show what a great guy you are.

You're a PUA-in-training.  As such, you should be building your own routines based on your own life experiences.  Put the routines here to work - try them out yourself a few times and get a feel for them and for approaching women.  Working with these PUA routines will give you a better insight into making your own routines from your own life experiences.

Have you read The Game by Neil Strauss?  It's credited with popularizing Pick Up Artists (PUAs).  Dating has become enjoyable again for the many men who've read the book and are following its guidelines.  Your dating life should get a real boost from the guidelines and tips here, even if you're pretty experienced in the dating scene.

Right off the bat, keep in mind that there really are two different kinds of pick up artists.  Memorizing different routines and stories to impress women, the first type works very hard for success.  The pick up artist wants to impress women and make them feel more attracted to him, and it's to this end that he carefully crafts and polishes his stories and routines.  Mystery is the prime example of this kind of pick up artist. 

The "natural game" is how Strauss characterizes the approach used by the second type of PUA.  This fellow, rather than memorizing lines and stories, uses his own natural charm and personality to achieve success with women.   His approach is spontaneous.  If you've read The Game, you'll recognize this approach as the one used by “Juggler.”

Now there’s nothing wrong with either approach.  Personally, I like natural game the best, but if canned routines work best for you, by all means use those. Memorizing all that material, though, seems too much like work to me.  Besides, isn't it a better feeling to know that you've attracted a woman on the bases is your own personality - who you really are - instead of because of some story you made up?

It doesn't matter which approach you use, however, if you don't concentrate on your inner game and who you really are.  The term "inner game" is how we label your core beliefs and especially your level of self-confidence.  Here's what that means: if you feel unattractive and shy, the number of routines and stories you've made up and memorized is immaterial, because it's unlikely you're ever going to approach a woman you find really attractive.  But if your self-confidence is high - that is, if you truly believe that you're a likable and attractive guy, then you'll be able to approach most women without any concern for being rejected.

Another tip I want to offer is simply to lets things progress at their own speed.  These things take time.  Attend to the basics and develop your confidence and courage - the time will come when you'll be dating multiple women at once.  Be single-minded - when something stands in your way, holds you back from success, you must focus all your efforts on overcoming that obstacle.  For instance, I had a terrible time with shyness.   To overcome my shyness, I devised a special challenge for myself.  I had to talk with 100 strangers every week.  Overcoming the obstacles you encounter is a job only you can do - nobody's going to do it for you.

Of all the possible pick up artist tips I could offer, though, one of the best is simple: consistency.  Once you've found a technique you're comfortable with, don't change.  Wannabe PUAs will invest a ton of money on all sorts of material that promises to show them how to be successful with women, but they won't give any of the techniques and strategies time to work.  Afterward, they'll complain that none of the techniques work.  The fact is, though, that dating success was available to these guys if they'd simply stuck with a single approach and gave it an honest trial. 

Thus, if you really want to achieve dating success, my final tip is to find one technique that you're comfortable with, learn it thoroughly, and stick to it!

First things first - can you have success dating if you can't meet the girl?  Therefore, it's absolutely essential that you overcome your approach anxiety.

Some people think that approach anxiety can't actually be overcome.  It's suggested by some that it's our genetics, and not our upbringing, that instills approach anxiety into us.  Approach anxiety can be overcome, insist others.

Approach anxiety has been overcome by many men using these suggestions:

3 Seconds to overcoming Approach Anxiety

It's easy to put this approach to work.  It's easy to understand: many men will spot a woman they'd like to meet, and then spend half the night wondering whether to approach her, and how.  But it's obvious that the more time spent thinking about it, the less likely that any meeting will take place!  To overcome this, act quickly - don't give the anxiety any time to develop!  The minute you see a woman you'd like to meet, approach her within three seconds.  To achieve success with the 3-second rule, you have to commit to using it all the time.  If you start making excuses or exceptions, though, you'll wrap yourself up in them and never meet exciting women!  Of course, reality rules: if circumstances absolutely forbid meeting her, such as when you're late for work or she's in the process of getting married, then you can let it go, but if you're in a social situation like a club, go for it!

Approach Anxiety can be Overcome with the Power of Money

This approach requires a wingman, but can be really successful in motivating you to get out there and meet exciting women.  For some guys, just having a buddy there watching is sufficient motivation to get out there and meet women.

If you're still holding back, though, even with your wingman watching, try this: hand him $100 in tens or twenties.  You get the money back - in chunks of $10 or $20, every time you approach a woman and actually talk with her.  You have to talk beforehand to determine how much he gives you back each time, and if you get more for a longer talk.  If you don't go out and meet women, then, you're going to go home broke!

Let's be frank, though.  These are just two ways of dealing with the problem.  At the end of the night, no matter how many women you've met, the problem is still there.  To permanently remove approach anxiety from your makeup, you're going to have to put some time and effort into determining its root cause and dealing with that.

Despite the claims of those who claim that approach anxiety is hereditary, I think that it's a learned response.

I think that when all the extraneous stuff is swept aside, the one consistent factor influencing approach anxiety is shame.

At some level in your psyche, when you're thinking about approaching a fascinating woman and letting approach anxiety get in your way, you're feeling ashamed. Perhaps you have unresolved issues about yourself, your appearance, your job, or something else, that embarrasses you and manifests itself as approach anxiety.  Perhaps you think, subconsciously, that you don't really deserve to have an exciting woman like her in your life, and you feel ashamed of yourself for thinking of approaching her.  Who knows?  Your situation is unlike anyone else's, and I don't want to paint people with a broad brush.

It's a matter of pride – every guy would love to date a girl who is so hot people will shake their heads in disbelief.

Believe it or not, it can happen. I'm proof. It's a great feeling to wake up in the morning and wonder why. But, I quit wondering and just enjoyed.

Step 1: Make a Move

Wishing and hoping will get you nowhere. Take action and start talking.  She already knows she's hot, chances are. And hot women don't ask for dates, they get asked.

Maybe it's not fair, you having to do all the work. But, it's a fact of life.  Keep your eye on the prize. If you want to date a good-looking girl, you've got to make some moves.

Step 2: Make the Move – Ask Her Out

Alright! You've moved in and your talking. You're one hoof ahead of the rest of the herd.  Keep things moving, keep her talking. The more you can get her to talk, the easier things get.

Hopefully, you have something neat in mind that you think she would enjoy. Explain a little. Tell her why she'd enjoy it. Ask her out.  You don't have to put on the dog. But do be creative. McDonalds isn't creative. Check out a museum. Go to an amusement park.

Don't be too busy or not busy enough when you go out. Movies – not good. You sit in the dark and don't talk. You need a chance to get to know each other, to flirt.

Step 3: It's Up to You

The girl has probably figured out that you really like her, but if you don't really show it, she'll get the yawns and move on.  This is important because you don't want to be a male girlfriend of hers who listens to her complain about her jerky boyfriends.

Now's not the time to be timid. You need to be bold, confident, take the lead. Women love that show of masculinity.  Act risky. Tell her exactly how you feel about her. Don't mince your words. Kiss her.  The best way to let a girl know how you feel is to tell her you think she's sexy.

Platonic? No way. Not if you tell her you think she's sexy. She'll know that you want more than brotherly love.

The girl may be out of your league, but you can probably get her by following these guidelines.  Set aside fear. Fear is meaningless in this situation. Take action.  It may not be easy to muster the courage, but, you know, someone's going to end up dating these hot girls and it might as well be you.

Would you like to find out how to let a girl know you like her?  Firstly, never try to rationalize the entire thing with her – Tons of guys will take a seat and compose a whole speech virtually and run through it so that they can say it perfectly.  Then they connect with her and have this serious talk where they tell the woman exactly how they feel for her.  In many cases the guy will be so jumpy the entire time that his romantic statement will only come off as awkward or creepy.

You really ought to avoid this for at least two good reasons.

The first reason this isn't really appropriate is because you're basically approaching it from a standpoint that you need to rationalize liking her.  This type of conduct is just yet another way of trying to win her over and show her what a good man you are.  You're still putting her up on a pedestal and that's just not attractive to women..  It is fine to just like a girl without having to rationalize it.

And second, you truly are not even there with her in any respect because you are too busy being worried and weighing over exactly what you're going to tell her.  You're lost in your own thoughts, which really is not attractive to girls at all.  Do the contrary of this and really be there entirely with her.

This probably seems very airy-fairy to you, but the effect this can give you with girls is astounding.  You can start practicing this by paying attention to your body.  Can you feel how your feet are resting on the floor or how the shirt you're wearing feels on your skin?  What about how your whole body starts to feel when you're with the woman?  I hope you can start to get why this is so important when you are talking to girls?

I hope you are starting to fully grasp this.

So, that is what you're not supposed to do, but what can you do to let her know that you don't only want to be friends?  Here is how to let a girl know you like her properly.

An SOI is an expression which is short for Statement of Intent.  This term is employed by Pickup Artists (PUA's).  The SOI was introduced by Juggler (a PUA identify for a man named Wayne Elise).  A simple SOI sounds like this:

Her: My final rehearsal is tomorrow night.  I'm so excited about my dancing performance on Saturday.

You:  You sure seem to be very dedicated to doing your best with your dance.  I think that's very sexy.

The important word here is the term "sexy."  This lets her know that you do not look at her as a friend.  It is a very subtle thing, but this lets the girl know that she can move forward and start hitting on you.  Basically say this casually and do not try to build it up into some sort of huge thing.  The idea here is to be delicate.  Don't fret, she won't miss it.

There is yet another way to let a woman know that you like her, which is to just be upfront and blunt about it.

Let's pretend you're out with a woman and out of nowhere this quiet feeling falls over the two of you--and it's not one of those "I am bored" silences.  Both of you know what it means.  You need to use this as an opportunity to simply say what you're both thinking.  "I really think you're hot and all I want to do at the moment is kiss you."  Of course you have to actually make a move and kiss her here.  This will likely seem a bit intimidating at first, but girls think this is extremely romantic.

The primary difference between this and what I mentioned earlier is that, first, it is not something you will be trying to remember and then trying to nervously spit out to the girl afterward.  And the second thing, this is something which a real man would do.  You're truthfully letting her know that you want to kiss her, not merely becoming all tense about whether or not she will say yes when you ask her to "perhaps maybe consider" becoming your girlfriend.  You're 100 % confident with your desires.  If you do this sort of thing, it lets women know that you have plenty of motivation and you can follow through on the things you want in life.

So, that is how to let a girl know you like her.  The essential component here is to make sure that it is casual and not some type of big deal.  As long as you just act like it is the most normal and natural thing there is, she will treat it so and follow suit.

A lot of guy talk centers around women and how to make them like you.  It's true, if you could be in a room full of lovely ladies, and be the center of attention, you'd be in heaven.  That sort of scenario made me want to learn all I could about how to be a lady's man. It worked – I have a perfect girl for two years now.

You may not be a Greek god, but handsome is as handsome does. You can get around that.

Lift your chin. Women go for personality over looks ninety-nine percent of the time.  Ari Onassis landed Jackie O. He's not really a handsome man. But he landed one of the world's most charming and beautiful women. Take heart.

Genetics are beyond your control, but you do have control in a number of ways to make girls like you:

Self-confidence is like a magnet for women.

Self-confidence is a powerful tool. If you exude self-confidence, you've practically got a woman on your arm.  Self-confidence is not a mysterious, hardly attainable trait. You just need the faith in yourself to do things that you or others may be afraid to do, and you need to believe that you are right.

Don't worry about it. Just do it. Start with small endeavors and build yourself up.  You face challenges. Get over them. Subdue them. Deal with them and your self-confidence will grow.

Get some life skills to get the girls.

Don't just stand there! Do something! Figure out neat things to do.  (It's no small thing to hack into a forbidden server, or excel at bow-hunting, or tune up a car, but those skills aren't exactly endearing to a woman's frame of mind.)  Figure out some fundamental skills that will attract, even surprise, women, and then you're building success.

You can really shine with if you can cook a great meal. Or if you know how to dance. Do you have an interesting  hobby? Or perhaps there's one you'd like to pick up. Paint, play the guitar.  There are so many regular old guys out there. Stand out in the crowd. Develop some life skills that may be simple, but will make a difference.

Flirt! Yes, flirt! You can make girls like you by flirting.

Flirting, and doing it well, is a great way to get girls to like you. Flirt as often as you can to keep yourself sharp.

Flirting is an art, it does take practice.

Flattery and not being too serious are the two main requirements regarding flirting.

It is not flirting to let out a wolf call and holler at a young lady that she has a nice rear end. That's not flirting. That's being subhuman.  It fails two flirting requirements:  1) you could have done it to any girl, she's not going to take you seriously,  2) there's is no way a woman could feel good about herself when hollered at in this fashion, it is demeaning to her; and guys who act like this are basically animals with no manners.

Follow your heart and follow these guidelines, and you'll be making a lot of female friends before you know it.  You've got personality, these three rules will help you display it in an attractive way.  As long as you have self-confidence, know how to do a few neat things, know how to flirt; you're going to do just fine with the girls.

No response from your online dating service? Feel like you've wasted your money? Most likely you made some serious mistakes when you built your online dating profile.

Here are some surprisingly common false steps that you have probably made, along with ways to correct them:

Mistake #1: Don't Use “Guy Speak” When You're Building Your Online Dating Profile.

Sure, you're a guy and you talk like a guy. But, this is the first step in thinning the herd. You've got to talk in a way that women appreciate.  Most men are pretty straight forward. They think in terms of facts and truths. “I'm a happy guy.” “I like to have fun.” “I like funny women.”

Sparse sentences come across as, well, sparse. They make no impression.  The truth is, a woman doesn't want the 411 on you, she can get that by Googling your name.  Women want to know what kind of guy you are. They can figure the other stuff out later.  That's where a thing called personality comes into play; show it off.

The Fix: Weave stories around the facts of your life that let her see who you are.  Wax poetic: “When I go camping in the woods, I love the way the morning sun dapples the forest floor.”  Dig? You've told her so much more about yourself than, “I like to go camping.”

Mistake #2: “Every Picture Tells a Story.” Don't Make Yours a Fright Tale.

Look at your picture long and hard, because she will, too.  Most guys rattle through a shoebox, find some blurry old picture of themselves hoisting a brew, and slap it on the scanner. What does that say to her? Not much, certainly nothing flattering.

You may have an awesome body that you've worked real hard to get real hard. But body shots lack class. The most they impart is that you're only interested in a physical relationship. That to you, internet dating is sex dating, period.

The Fix: Get some decent pictures of yourself.  Don't rush off to the studio to get a portrait done; use the one of you smiling over a campfire as you fry up some fish. Or even reading a book, if you're that sort of guy.

Mistake #3: What's In a Name?

One of the most important things to consider is figuring a name to match yourself. Don't do something drab like “Robert1985”. And don't do pitiful names such as “Searching4U” or “LetsGo4It”.

The Fix: Conjure up something memorable and fascinating, as you are, something like “GuitarsAndGears” if you're into stock car racing and steel guitars.  Remember the warning about body shot photos? Don't make your name offensive. Double meanings could work, though.  “AnimalLover” could work if you are a veterinarian or love animals.

Following these words of advice will help you immensely when you sit down and start crafting your online profile. And the women will take note.

Stand back, you may find the women messaging you, rather than vice versa, once you post.

Lots of guys will try out online dating to meet some new women without the hassle of going to bars and clubs.  They get an account, post a few photos on the site and make a brief profile. But if they do not know the following few online dating tips men should know, most guys will only come back empty-handed.

It can really hurt to put yourself out there and not get any response at all from women.  It seems like you should be able to join one of these sites and meet at least a few women.  But most guys won’t even get a single message from a woman online.  Why would this happen?

Online Dating Tips Men Need to Know: The rules are completely different online

What you should understand first is that women would have more choices in online dating, while the reality for men is not that optimistic.  You’ll find way too many guys on the internet trying to meet women that are just going about it all wrong.  They are just sending the same email to hundreds of women.  Or they send offensive messages.  Or they bore women with their life story with the first email (before they’ve even established any rapport).

To be frank, women just aren’t going to e-mail you first.  Actually, they don’t really have to do anything but wait for the men to come to them.

So you see, the deck is stacked against you.

Online Dating Tips Men Need to Know: Actually you are lucky that most guys are totally clueless at this

While most of these guys are left wondering why online dating doesn’t work for them, you can move in and date more women that you know how to handle.  Thus, you get great possibility to go out with just about any woman you want on these websites.

Online Dating Tips Men Need to Know: Weave a story with your words

In online dating, words will taking you farther than anything else.  Most guys’ profiles are so lame with things like “I’m doctor” or “I’ve got a great sense of humor.”  This kind of stuff isn’t going to work to attract women.  Use words to describe rather than just to give facts.  Something like this would be much better:

“I just love cooking a great meal.  There’s something so rewarding from finding the right ingredients and preparing them in just the right way for a few friends and seeing their faces light up with joy when they taste the delicious meal that I’ve prepared for them."

Can you tell the difference here?

Online Dating Tips Men Need to Know: Make a good first impression

Women usually do not email first, so this will be your job.  In your initiative email to a woman, you should write something short and make it personal.  Women just get flat-out bombarded with boring e-mails all day long from guys.

The email should be just to her, so she will notice you extra attention and that you actually read her profile.  She is bored with these guys that send the exact same boring email to a hundred women, but you are not one of them (I hope).

Write a brief message to catch her attention and reel her in to check out your profile.  When you are writing your first email to her, you should be as short as possible.  It’s better write in one or two sentences.  If you write more, you’re trying too hard to impress her.  She may more likely to write back to you if you ask a question to her.

For example, if she is fond of Japanese food, you can ask her a short question like “Do you like natto?  Because if you do, that’s a deal-breaker” to make her laugh and think you are funny.  By doing so, you show your sense of humor and increase the likelihood that she will write back, too.

This is not too hard to do, but to my surprise, a lot of guys seem to have no idea how do it.  Guys who hope to meet women online should remember the tips I’ve shared here.

When guys are trying to get better with women, one of the most difficult things is how to approach the girl.  It’s not easy at all.    By working up your overall confidence, you will overcome that anxiety when it comes to approaching a girl.   Figure out what you are going to say and where you are going to meet before approaching any girl.

We can look at this a couple of ways.

Approaching girls and mustering the courage for it.

I have to be honest with you for a second.    It’s not easy for a lot of guys when it comes to talking to girls.    If you find it easy when it comes to talking with girls, then you are lucky.   Talking with girls holds a lot of guys back from becoming successful with a woman.

You have to ask yourself why you don’t feel confident talking to a girl.    Could it be your looks that are holding you back?    Do you think she will find you boring?    Figure out the problem and work on improving it.

If you feel that it’s your looks that’s holding you back, then work out more or find something better to wear.    If you are not good at talking or sparking a conversation, create some small talk with strangers.

Approaching girls and locating them.

Finding girls can be rather difficult for guys.    talking with women might be difficult, but you have to understand that half the world’s population is covered with women.    Everywhere you look, you can find a woman.  Finding them won’t be difficult, seeing as they need to buy groceries just like you, eat like you, go to work, etc.

The location plays a huge role when it comes to approaching girls.    Finding that place is key.      having something in common, especially the location, will make approaching girls that much easier.

Sharing something in common, like a hobby or pastime, will make approaching a girl that much easier.    You’ll know what to say or ask when you are in common ground. 

Succeeding in approaching girls.

Are you ready?   You see here standing over there.    What are you going to do about it?

Prepare yourself to go up and talk to her.    Search for a reason to start a conversation with her.    Maybe she is wearing something that stands out, or something she is doing that catches your attention?

If you can’t find a good reason to talk to her, you’re probably no thinking hard enough.    If you have nothing to talk to her about try to memorize a few canned PUA routines to keep as a backup plan. 

If your confidence level is high and you know exactly what you want to tell the girl, then there is no reason not to approach to girl.  Start talking to her and see if this is someone you would want to get to know better.    Ask her for her phone number, if you think she’s your type.

These are my tips for approaching girls.   Get over the approach anxiety and you will not have any trouble talking to girls.    It can change your life and boost your overall confidence.   Get to know someone new.   That person you are talking to could be your next girlfriend.